Most of us dislike conflict! It is something that we try to avoid, if at all possible. Our dislike often leads us to ignore it, or attempt to minimize what has happened. The danger of this approach of “Conflict Avoidance” is that it results in significant consequences. We should not be surprised that followers of… Continue Reading

I have talked to many people over the years that have been wronged. When I have spoken to them about the need to forgive, the response, “I could never forgive them!” And then they offer a reason such as, “I could never forget.” Another response might be “If I did they would take advantage of… Continue Reading

I was recently asked “Why do I not have joy at work?” The question was driven by having to work with a difficult coworker. I think that most people have faced the challenge of working with others that make the workplace difficult. The collateral damage is that these difficulties often tempt the follower of Jesus… Continue Reading

I have to believe that all of us want God’s blessing in our lives. I was recently reminded of Jesus’ guidance on how to be in that spot in our lives. Now, I am not talking about life without problems. I am talking about a life that that has peace that flows from the confidence… Continue Reading

I was wondering, when was the last time that you were intentional about being kind to others? When was the last time you woke up in the morning and said I’m going to be kind to those that want to cut in line at the store? When was the last time you chose to be… Continue Reading